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It's definitely my hormones!! - Definitivamente, son mis hormonas!!

Confirmed!


They’re crazy, and when they affect us, boy do they affect us!
But we have to be stronger than them and make sure that they don’t affect our daily life!
How happy they become when we give them what they need when they need it! What an incredible change! Life is great!

But no more! From now on life is going to be great all the time, even when they are not satisfied!
Every day they surprise you… I know…
So surprise them back! Tell them “I know that what you want and I’m very happy knowing it! Haha. It’s fun to do, and when you accept that they are there to stay it’s a laugh!

I am going to dedicate today’s theme choice to my “hormonal inspiration”. Someone may have need of this word some time in the future. I myself didn’t know it, so we’re going to find out what it is!

Psychological projection: Projection is a defence mechanism which manifests itself in situations of emotional conflict or internal/external threat, and involves attributing one’s own unacceptable feelings, thoughts and impulses to other people or objects. These unwelcome feelings, thoughts or desires are projected and directed towards something or someone else because they generate anxiety or distress.”

The first lesson of today: make sure that YOU are fine, and ONLY YOU! (that was a song, wasn’t it? Haha).

When this happens, there are no fears! Focus on you, discover yourself and when this happens you’ll see how great everything around you is. Things begin to work well in all aspects of your life. But YOU are what’s most important. (You can contact me to find out how to discover yourself).
It’s easy to blame others for your mistakes and to complain about everything that happens. That’s the easy part and it’s what we tend to do, but we don’t want to be average and to have unfulfilling lives so we’re going to focus on discovering, accepting and then improving our weaknesses and failings. Yeah! Let’s do it!


EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE



Confirmado!

Son locas, y si nos afectan, si nos afectan!!
Pero hay que ser mas fuerte que ellas y esforzarse para que no nos afecten a nuestra vida diaria!
Que felicidad cuando les damos lo que necesitan cuando lo necesitan! Increíble cambio! la vida es maravillosa! Pues no! A partir de ya la vida va a ser maravillosa siempre incluso cuando ellas no están satisfechas!

Cada día te sorprenden...lo se...
Pues sorprendeles tu a ellas diciendo "se que es lo que queréis y estoy muy feliz de saberlo!!" jaja

Esto es divertido, y cuando aceptas que están ahí es una risa!

Hoy voy a tratar un tema dedicado a mi "inspiración hormonal"! Puede que alguien necesite de este termino alguna vez, yo misma no lo conocía así que vamos a ver que es!

Proyección afectiva."La proyección es un mecanismo de defensa que opera en situaciones de conflicto emocional o amenaza de origen interno o externo, atribuyendo a otras personas u objetos los sentimientos, impulsos o pensamientos propios que resultan inaceptables para el sujeto. Se «proyectan» los sentimientos, pensamientos o deseos que no terminan de aceptarse como propios porque generan angustia o ansiedad, dirigiéndolos hacia algo o alguien y atribuy´ totalmente a este objeto externo. Por esta vía, la defensa psíquica logra poner estos contenidos amenazantes afuera."Primera lección de hoy, asegura te que estas bien TU, y solamente TU! (esto era una canción no? jaja)

Cuando esto sucede, no hay miedos! Céntrate en ti, conócete y cuando esto suceda veras como todo tu alrededor es maravilloso, las cosas empezaran a funcionar bien en todos los aspectos. Pero TU eres lo mas importante. (Podéis consultarme para saber como conocerte a ti mismo).



Es fácil atribuir los fallos a los demás, y quejarse de todo lo que pasa, esa es la parte fácil y a la que tendemos, pero no queremos ser mediocres y tener una vida desgraciada así que vamos a centrarnos en conocer, aceptar y entonces mejorar nuestros fallos y debilidades! yeah! let's do it!

INTELIGENCIA EMOCIONAL

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