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Guys, relationships are NOT an INVESTMENT. Thank you very much

Living your life as an investment can kill the whole beauty of it. The idea of investing in yourself to grow and saving money to invest for the future is all good and useful to a certain point. But there is a fine line between investing in your life and forgetting about being adventurous. When you focus too much on the future you can potentially forget about the present, and I am telling you this because I have come from that place; where the future seems more important than what is going on right now. Fortunately, I have learnt to balance this and to focus more on the present because thinking about it, who wants to invest in the future when we don´t really know if there is a future?  My purpose for today was to not speak about life, although I know that´s what I do most of the time. Let´s get back on track with what I wanted to say. GUYS, relationships ARE NOT AN INVESTMENT. I say this because there are many times a guy would rather not be with me at all unless there’s

PICK UP ARTISTS around the world!

Guys, you are boring! Actually, you are pretty good I have to say - by keeping the silence during a date, approaching us from the side or whatever techniques you apply, coming with "creative" sentences to call our attention...  It´s awesome, but, of course there is a but! I really feel like you all sound the same. What about intuition, what about authenticity, are you forgetting this? What about YOU? Are you forgetting there is someone inside there? Listen to your voice, listen to yourself. Please How do we do this? If you don´t utilize what you have learnt at your PUA sessions you basically end up being a sheep, or another PUA guy. I  am not here to say how bad Pick Up guys are, not at all! I actually think what you guys do is awesome, very courageous. It helps to break the ice and for men that are insecure or have difficulties to approach women, it is an awesome exercise to do and to start with. But be smart, use it! Get feedback from what you have done

We are not cavemen...

Hey guys new writer contribution to the blog, your opinion is important to me, please let me know what you think! We are entering a brave new liberal era, where boys and girls have finally declared peace on  the war of sexes, divorces are not a shameful resolution, discussing periods doesn’t  bring blushed faces and fathers leaving rooms and masturbation is a story genre in its own right.  Seemingly (SEMENly...too far?) - because this feels more like a trend than a social movement - it's becoming  more  and more popular to be ‘edgy’ and ‘courageously sarcastic’ in order to be cool and well  liked.  Boys make the common mistake of primarily basing the way they want others to see them on their appearance, using flirtatious showing off of guns and wash-board abs...not many complaints here right ladies? Dopamine eat your heart out...anyway! This is  because men tend to think that this would also be the way women would flirt them. There  is a traditional sense of men b