NOTE. This is for men specially (and in some cases, women). THINGS NOT TO SAY: - "You have opened my heart again." Whaaaa? Firstly, she/ he doesn´t need to know you opened your heart before to someone else. Second of all - already? That’s a bit too easy to open! Thirdly, is this something you open and close as a door, really? :P "Next week, let’s go to..." Next week? I don’t even know what I am doing tomorrow! Don’t make plans. - "What do you do?" (Not in the first 5 questions, please!) You can perhaps be more creative and even focus on having fun instead of interviewing her. If you want to do so, then do it clearly and in a humourous way like: I want to interview you, is that ok? Then go for it! THINGS TO DO: - Please have the intention to pay (at least) or take her/ him to a free activity or whatever. Girls, yes, this is also for you - the old tradition of they (the man) always paying for your stuff is obsolete.