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Having a 1st date? PLEASE READ!

NOTE. This is for men specially (and in some cases, women). THINGS NOT TO SAY: - "You have opened my heart again." Whaaaa? Firstly, she/ he doesn´t need to  know you opened your heart before to someone else.  Second of all - already?  That’s a bit too easy to open! Thirdly, is this something you open and close as a door, really? :P "Next week, let’s go to..."  Next week? I don’t even know what I am doing  tomorrow! Don’t make plans. - "What do you do?" (Not in the first 5 questions, please!) You can perhaps be more  creative and even focus on having fun instead of interviewing her. If you want to  do so, then do it clearly and in a humourous way like: I want to interview you, is  that ok? Then go for it! THINGS TO DO: - Please have the intention to pay (at least) or take her/ him to a free activity or  whatever. Girls, yes, this is also for you - the old tradition of they (the man) always  paying for your stuff is obsolete.

God! So lazy to open up again!!

This is what happens when you understand or at least you think you understand how love works, - sorry guys, I know, too much love lately and you may be expecting some interesting sex stories and they will come at some point! Be patient! As I said, when you understand that love is a decision, you understand that the person is not the most important part. I know this sounds kind of like "Whaaaaa? So I can love anyone?" Yes my darling, you can. But this is the tricky thing, you’ll go from love love love to times that love is not enough by itself and that’s why it’s important to make sure you have something in common with that person, have fun together, have similar plans, make each other laugh... Am I making sense? I could just be blind right now and speaking bull¨hit, but I am not sure.  It seems to me that after loving someone for a while something starts to die unless you put a lot of effort into it; flirting intensely, complimenting one another and keeping up the 

Sex & Mind

Hello! How are you today?  I know, I know I have been missing for a couple of weeks! And I haven´t got a real good excuse! Some of you don´t know that I am running a training company, so yes that´s the main reason why I have been a bit disconnected, but trust me, I have been thinking about you EVERYDAY, really, I am not lying, I love sitting here with you all and telling you my deepest thoughts, yes ok sometimes they are not that deep, but sometimes they are! You just don´t get them! ;) So yes, as I was saying got a bit busier than normal these past weeks. But I´m back! Here all for you!  Why I called this article "sex & mind", ok guess... come on, I will give you 3 seconds 3 2 1 Go! Exactly, because they go together! And yes also that! Only in women´s bodies!! Yayy good guess!! Well done! Ok I was joking (usually when I say I am joking it will be only half joking, just so you can follow me). How can you have great sex if you are thinking about to